I get 1-2 messages a week asking my opinion on something pertaining to pregnancy, birth, or postpartum.
While of course I have an opinion, as a doula, I try to be unbiased in providing nonjudgmental educational support. I will not make decisions for you! If you’re met with a routine standard practice in pregnancy that makes you uncomfortable or an intervention during birth, I can remind you to use our brains.
No, not in a sarcastic way either! I encourage you to ask your provider these questions so you can give informed consent:B: What are the benefits?R: What are the risks?A: What are the alternatives?I: What does your intuition tell you? What’s your gut instinct say?N: What happens if we do nothing?S: Can I get a second opinion?You know your body the best and you are it’s best advocate. If you have questions, ask them!